….Why It Can Happen To You….
Before the twin souls/Beshert unite they need to become whole and can often face major catastrophic life traumas. Marriage breakdowns, family breakdowns, career changes, health challenges that will show up, indicates the final painful challenges that they have to face alone. They have to under-go a major upheaval and spiritual renovation of sorts. They each separately have to face the crisis alone drawing on wells of strength and reserves that they do not even know they have. They have to go through this trial of fire without the other partner. Without their interference or them holding their hand through it.
In a strange cosmic massive clearance event, you are forced to face the demons in your life as they rise, more violently and bigger than you have ever experienced. You will be forced to face yourself and the weaknesses in your own personality. The feeling of reaching rock bottom with things seemingly converging all at once is a test of your strength; mentally, emotional, spiritual may seem overwhelming but we promise you this… you have the strength you need to overcome. It may not feel like it but you do. You are never tested without being given the resources of strength needed to get through it. This is part of your accelerated development to be ‘ready’ in preparation of clearing all your past karma before you begin your relationship with your twin soul and step into your lives of love and light.
Our journey to each other has been strewn with obstacles from the out-set. We were both challenged to grow and painfully stretch ourselves to accommodate who we needed to become to have a sacred blessed relationship. As we grew the spiritual connection grew, daily. We were amazed by the strength of the spiritual bond, although N immerses himself in daily meditation, he is also healer, light worker and his gifts match and compliment my own. Personally I couldn’t sit still long enough to meditate and find it easier to use visualisation. I’m a healer, clairvoyant, clairsentient, medium, empathic and spiritual warrior. But I was blown away from the depth of love and connection I felt for him. When we had met 14 years before I had told everyone who would listen except him, (I was painfully shy) that I was going to be Mrs. N. I had ‘seen’ it so many times that I ‘knew’ it was inevitable. If you were to ask me if I thought it would have taken over 14 years? I would have told you ‘no way!’ I never was good at measuring time in spirit. Although N is all that and a tin of beans, I think I would have quietly slipped off in to the night if I didn’t love him as much as I do. I have sacrificed so much for our relationship, we both have. I’ve been lonely and sad without him. Cried into my pillow and woken up with his photograph stuck to the side of my face and yet still waited for him. Because one thing they don’t tell you…. Is that when you meet them you know… You really do. Sex becomes unimportant (until they’re with you); when I used to have a let’s just say a healthy sex drive. I surprised myself and I’m now waiting for our wedding day and I’m actually happy that we have waited… I’ve been celibate now so long he may have to jump start me, by taking off is shirt.. a lot….Mmmmm…. It’s not that we now have no sex drive, more like it’s laying dormant until we’re in each others company to erupt so hot, causing solar flares from our bodies. We both have been fed spiritually in a completely different way to any other relationship we have ever experienced. It’s as though all those feelings have been put to sleep. Although N is in my opinion, the most gorgeous man in the universe, because we have waited the spiritual side has grown expedientially and we have found that we can communicate in ways that have only been told in science fiction novels. We have no need for telephones, Internet or letters. We communicate through thought and love. He connects daily and we are able without any sort of ritual, to remain connected and share thoughts ideas, love and joy fluidly and easily. I found it a little scary at first to be so open to him… I was used to my gift but unused to someone else being able to connect to me.
N loved the James Bond secret agent style of spiritual love we shared. He loved that he could carry me everywhere and evoke smiles from me effortlessly across the Atlantic and feel it tickle his heart chakra. I however loved it a lot less. I loved that he was connected but I found it tedious to only connect spiritually; the novelty ran out quite quickly for me. I missed the physical joy, the touch of his hand, the feel of his lips against mine, the warmth of his embrace. I didn’t always appreciate that he could connect to my thoughts, when sometimes I just wanted to maintain a feminine air of mystique. I also seemed to feel him stronger when I spoke to my male friends. – a legacy from his past deceitful partner. Although N knew I was devoted to him and no other man could measure up to my beloved in my heart. Spiderman’s motto sprang to mind, that with great power comes great responsibility. I felt that he already knew everything about me good and bad without even coming home. When speaking to my friends they understood my spirituality and the gifts I had been born with but they couldn’t fully comprehend the enormity of our spiritual connection. It was a stretch even by our standards. N’s friends also thought he was loopy and couldn’t understand the connection either, but then decided that we belonged to each other because we were both nuts until they started reading this blog. We didn’t mind, we knew what this is and besides, we’d been called far, far worse.
We knew this amazing gift was a blessing. An awesome miracle that we were able to love each other and share each other’s energy in the unique ways we do. We searched high and low on the Internet, in books for other twin flame relationships but we couldn’t find another couple as connected as we are, to learn from or to measure our experiences by. We were guided spiritually that this had happened to us because we were both writers and creative, we were given the responsibility of sharing our experiences and love with anyone that is guided to us.
There is going to be an increase of twin flame relationships as we move into a new era of light. Although in the past many people were told that their twin flame was guiding them from above and they were not going to meet them in this life… this may have been the case before… but times are thankfully changing… Hundreds of thousands of light workers are awakening to their missions in 2013 and onwards are engaging in a spiritual acceleration of light that is encompassing the whole plant earth. We are being fast tracked into the light and the light worker roles we were born to fulfil and that celestial position is a joint job. It’s equally important that you know there is no age limit, no health barriers, no culture barriers… We are abundantly blessed and thankful, that God will bless us with our twin flame/Beshert to increase and magnify the light ratio in the world, while we have the added bonus of sharing our lives with the one person we were created to love and cherish who will always understand us without words.
Visualise when you pray/meditate a golden orb of light descending from heaven with God's blessing. I have pictured Jesus releasing this energy into my life. Within this light is the soul essence of your twin flame filled with love, healing, energy and light for you. Call it into your life and watch the orb of light gently float down to absorb itself into your heart as you are filled with love and light from your head to your toes. Visualise yourself glowing with this protective loving energy and carry the energy with you for the rest of your day just by imagining a light switch. You visualise it attached to your body if you have trouble visualising this. You can also activate the light infusion by touch. Sometimes, I touch my thumb and forefinger together and it will do the same thing…Switch on your light switch whenever you feel the light dimming. Do this each morning before you get out of bed and thank God for your twin flame partner as though they were already with you. List all the positive qualities they have (add the qualities you would like in a partner, don’t be materialistic, or think of a specific person...you can not ‘force’ someone to be your twin flame) and speak those qualities into life, as you do you will call it into your own life. Send your twin flame love and light and tell them how much you will love and cherish them. As soon as you do this, you are connected to their essence every single time. You’ll never feel completely lonely again and your twin flame no matter where they are in the world will feel it too, whether or not they have the immediate understanding of why they feel so joyful, light and loved.
Wishing you all love and light. Have a blessed day. V&N